Did you know there’s a difference between feeling sad and having depression? If you follow popular culture or any kind of media, it is common to hear these ideas mischaracterized and often conflated.
TV and movie characters may carelessly refer to another character as “having depression” without considering that there is a clinical definition for this condition.
You may also have witnessed a person try to help another individual with depression by offering them advice like, “Just snap out of it,” or “Be more positive.” These suggestions, while well-intended, can have an adverse effect.
One reason people may continue to give this advice is they don’t truly understand the difference between an individual who has depression and someone who is feeling sad.
At the core, people truly want to help their family, friends, coworkers, peers, and significant others to feel better, but they may lack the more nuanced understanding of the difference between feeling sad and having depression so their efforts may do the opposite of what they intended to do.
I want to be educated! So what is sadness, anyway?
Sadness is an emotion that everyone experiences at some point, or multiple points, throughout their lives. A specific trigger can cause someone to feel sad. Oftentimes, people may feel sad when they have experienced a loss, undergone a change, or dealt with a stressful or upsetting life event.
Losing a job, breaking up with a significant other, losing a loved one, and moving are all examples of triggers that may precede a person feeling sad.
Someone who is feeling sad usually experiences this emotion for a short period of time. Individuals who feel sad can still participate in much of their daily lives without their emotions having too great of an impact.
Yeah, I’ve felt that way before. How is feeling sad different than having depression?
Depression sometimes called a major depressive disorder or clinical depression is an ongoing mental health condition that can drastically impact a person’s daily life. According to NIMH, it is the most common mental health challenge in the U.S., affecting nearly 7% of the adult population.
People who “experience persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness and lose interest in activities they once enjoyed” may have depression, especially if their symptoms have been present for at least two weeks, based on the DSM-5 criteria for this mental health condition.
Individuals with depression may also have physical symptoms like chronic pain or digestive issues.
A common myth about depression is that a person’s brain chemistry is out of balance. However, recent research has debunked this theory and has expanded ideas about the potential causes of depression.
According to a recent publication by the Harvard Medical School community, there may be many possible causes of depression such as “faulty mood regulation by the brain, genetic vulnerability, stressful life events, medications, and medical problems. It’s believed that several of these forces interact to bring on depression.”
It can be difficult to determine what causes depression, while it is usually clear that a specific life event has led to a person feeling sad.
There IS a big difference between feeling sad and having depression. I’m wondering if there’s any way I can help.
After reading this blog post, you may have realized that you were not as supportive to people in your life who may have depression. We appreciate your empathy and desire to learn more. So we put together a little guidance about the best ways to be there for someone who has depression.
The first thing you can do is encourage people who may have depression to talk to mental health or health professional. People who think they have depression can learn more about the condition by visiting the NIMH (National Institute of Mental Health) or Mayo Clinic websites.
Individuals who have depression, and, in some cases, people who feel sad, may isolate themselves from their communities.
Engaging in social activities can help to reduce the feelings of isolation that can compound if people withdraw from their community.
While all of us can benefit from social interaction, people with depression can especially benefit from opportunities to connect.
Here are some specific ways you can help your friends, family, coworkers, peers, and significant others that may help them build stronger human connections:
- Be present with them by listening to what’s on their minds if they are open to talking about it while resisting the urge to give advice.
- Encourage them to use whatever means of creative expression that’s meaningful to them, such as art or writing, to process their feelings.
- Offer to accompany them to social gatherings and community events, especially if they used to go to these events and if they show interest in going to them.